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California Told Us to Deceive Parents, but We Said No
Teachers shouldn’t be forced to lie to parents about their child’s asserted gender identity.
Elizabeth Mirabelli and Lori Ann West, National Review
etween us, we spent more than five decades teaching in California public schools. We both won Teacher of the Year awards. We coached teams, mentored struggling students, and built the kind of trust with families that only comes from showing up year after year. We didn’t enter education to become plaintiffs in a federal lawsuit. We entered it because we believed in children and in the partnership between schools and parents.
Then California told us to start lying to those parents.
Under policies enforced by Governor Gavin Newsom and Attorney General Rob Bonta, California schools were required to conceal a child’s asserted gender identity from parents, even when a student was living as a different gender at school with a new name and pronouns. These policies apply to children as young as two. We were told to participate or face consequences. As educators, and as women of faith, we couldn’t comply.
So we sued. In December 2025, Judge Roger Benitez of the Southern District of California ruled that the state’s parental exclusion policies are unconstitutional. He found that schools cannot hide a child’s social gender transition from that child’s own parents and that teachers who want to share such information cannot be prohibited from doing so.
Consider what those policies did to real families. One family in our case discovered that their daughter’s school had been secretly transitioning her and treating her as a boy since the start of seventh grade. For 13 months, her mental health deteriorated while her parents knew nothing. She attempted suicide. Her parents learned the truth not from any teacher or counselor, but from doctors at a hospital. Even after this tragedy, school administrators continued to withhold information about their daughter’s gender identification, citing California law.
The daughter in another family was secretly transitioned beginning in fifth grade. Her parents found out only because another mother let the secret slip. When they confronted the principal, they were told that state law prohibited sharing information about a child’s gender identity without the child’s consent.
California defended its approach by claiming that it protects students. But after more than two years of litigation and full discovery, the state could not produce a single piece of admissible evidence that parental involvement causes harm. Its own expert witnesses did not meaningfully disagree that parental notice and involvement is best for the child.
Our refusal cost us personally. Someone broke into one of our classrooms to put up malicious posters. Students harassed us, encouraged by school employees who circulated protest videos. One of us was placed on involuntary leave after retaliatory complaints from colleagues. The other went on leave, fearing for her safety. Even after winning a preliminary injunction, we had to fight for months before being reinstated. The years-long legal battle took a heavy toll.
What began as two teachers refusing to comply grew into something much larger. Other educators joined our case, some under pseudonyms for fear of retaliation. Then parents came forward, including the families of children whose stories are now cited in a Supreme Court opinion. What started as a stand on conscience became a certified class action on behalf of teachers and parents across California, the largest of its kind in the country.
On Monday night, the Supreme Court vindicated those families. In a 6–3 decision, the Court vacated the Ninth Circuit’s stay and restored Judge Benitez’s injunction for parents across California. The per curiam opinion held that the state’s secrecy policies likely violate parents’ rights under both the free exercise clause and the due process clause of the 14th Amendment. The policies, the Court said, “cut out the primary protectors of children’s best interests: their parents.”
The Court’s order formally applies to parents, not teachers. But the logic of the decision protects us, too. If parents have a constitutional right to know about their child’s gender transition at school, then California cannot punish a teacher for providing that information. You cannot have a right to receive the truth if the person who would tell it can be fired for speaking. The state was ordering us to violate parents’ constitutional rights every single day. The Supreme Court has now said those rights are real.
The debate over parental rights in public schools continues to rage across the country, and the Court has signaled that further issues in this arena will probably come before it. But the Supreme Court has spoken with unmistakable clarity: California’s secrecy policies likely violate parents’ constitutional rights, the harm those policies inflict is real and irreparable, and the state’s interest in concealment cannot justify it.
We refused to lie to the parents who trusted us with their children. California punished us for it. The Supreme Court has now told California it was wrong.
Elizabeth Mirabelli and Lori Ann West are the lead plaintiffs in Mirabelli v. Bonta, represented by the Thomas More Society, a national nonprofit public-interest law firm.

